by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jan 2, 2024 | Uncategorized
Two years ago, I stopped doing what most people do this time of year. I used to reflect on the previous year and looked forward to the new one. It was a ritual I liked doing AND … it was driven by 2 main assumptions: #1 That there was something to ACHIEVE. That I had...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Dec 29, 2023 | Uncategorized
Since I was a kid, I yearned for more freedom. But I only experienced the beginnings of it when I started my business in 2003, at age 35. It felt great to stop doing meaningless office work, wasting my life on things that didn’t truly matter to me. Working as a coach...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Dec 11, 2023 | Uncategorized
I came across this tree (see picture) on yesterday’s walk. Saturday’s wind gusts uprooted it. For some reason, it made me think of what J. Krishnamurti, a mystic, speaker and writer, once said. He asked his audience at one of his talks if they wanted to know his...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Oct 25, 2023 | Uncategorized
We all feel overwhelmed, stuck, or stressed at times. You need to make a decision but are scared to make the wrong choice. There’s so much to do and so little time. You have a dream but aren’t sure how to accomplish it. You worry you’ll never get something you want....
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jul 25, 2023 | Uncategorized
Imagine standing at a crossroads, wrestling with a decision that feels big and important. The pressure mounts, and you feel stuck, paralyzed even, by the fear of making the wrong choice. We’ve all been there, struggling with uncertainty. Decision making can feel quite...