by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jul 24, 2026 | Uncategorized
I used to check my energy before I sent an email: Was it positive? Was I sending out good vibes? If not, I took some time to raise that vibration, shift that energy, hype up those thoughts!When I noticed my energy or mood were low, I came up with ways to feel...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 21, 2026 | Uncategorized
Maybe you’ll be happy once you’ve finally fixed yourself.Maybe you can relax after you push through this week.This project.The next 13 years. It’s a deeply engrained belief that doing leads to getting.That effort equals reward.That if you want Y,...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Apr 11, 2026 | Uncategorized
I thought I was lazy for a long time.I was made to believe that was wrong. Idle brains are the devil’s workshop and all that.You should be active.Productive.Outgoing.Grab life by the balls and make something of it.And of yourself.But I always sensed there...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 11, 2026 | Uncategorized
“If this is it, it’s not good enough,” a client once told me when I asked what made her reach out to work with me. ”It looks like I have everything, but it doesn’t feel like that to me. On the outside, my life looks great, but on the...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jan 30, 2026 | Uncategorized
Recently I took a client through a guided meditation. Afterwards she said to me: “I could feel how much effort it takes to live life.”Most of that effort is invisible. Unmeasurable. And probably not the kind of effort you’d expect.No, it’s not the effort of...
