by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 11, 2025 | Uncategorized
Clarity. We’re obsessed with it. You need to be clear on what you want, where you’re going, your next step. Otherwise, you can’t move. You can’t decide. You’re stuck until you know. So you chase clarity. You make lists and weigh options. You talk it out and think...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 10, 2025 | Uncategorized
Here’s something I fiercely believed but no longer do: The idea that you need to integrate insights. That you need to embody whatever shifted. That if you don’t, you’ll fall back into old patterns. Repeat the same mistakes. It sounds plausible. Important, even. You...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 8, 2025 | Uncategorized
Struggle is addictive. You don’t want to let it go, and secretly, you enjoy it. How do I know? Because I used to be addicted to it—even when I thought I wanted struggles gone forever. Why are you seduced by it? Because you don’t trust easy. That’s not real! Because...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 8, 2025 | Uncategorized
Do you ever fear that you’re too much? That you email too much, talk too much, ask too much, or just ‘are’ too much in general? I used to worry if I emailed too much. Especially during launches. I worried if people would find me salesy, pushy, or just plain annoying....
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 6, 2025 | Uncategorized
You say you want ease. A lighter business. A simpler life. Less stress and more flow. And yet—when things finally start working, when success happens effortlessly, when the path opens wide without resistance—you don’t relax into it. You don’t trust it. You grip...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 4, 2025 | Uncategorized
When you look from the outside at how I market my business, you may think it’s pure unstructured chaos. And perhaps sometimes you think it’s very well thought out. Here’s what it really is: I’m winging it. What looks like chaos? Winging. What looks like strategy?...
