by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 8, 2025 | Uncategorized
Struggle is addictive. You don’t want to let it go, and secretly, you enjoy it. How do I know? Because I used to be addicted to it—even when I thought I wanted struggles gone forever. Why are you seduced by it? Because you don’t trust easy. That’s not real! Because...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 8, 2025 | Uncategorized
Do you ever fear that you’re too much? That you email too much, talk too much, ask too much, or just ‘are’ too much in general? I used to worry if I emailed too much. Especially during launches. I worried if people would find me salesy, pushy, or just plain annoying....
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 6, 2025 | Uncategorized
You say you want ease. A lighter business. A simpler life. Less stress and more flow. And yet—when things finally start working, when success happens effortlessly, when the path opens wide without resistance—you don’t relax into it. You don’t trust it. You grip...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 4, 2025 | Uncategorized
When you look from the outside at how I market my business, you may think it’s pure unstructured chaos. And perhaps sometimes you think it’s very well thought out. Here’s what it really is: I’m winging it. What looks like chaos? Winging. What looks like strategy?...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 28, 2025 | Uncategorized
Here’s what I do to quickly get out of an emotional funk: Nothing. Yep. Absolutely nothing. Let me explain: We learn that we should always strive to feel good—or at least as good as possible. If we don’t feel good, we try to avoid, suppress, or fix that feeling, or...
