The biggest misconception about relaxation (that keeps feeling relaxed away from you) is this:
The idea that relaxation is the absence of activity.
Most people think you can only relax when your chores are done, or when you have the time for it.
They see unwinding as a break from responsibilities and work, as a time to switch off, something you only have time for during the evenings, on weekends, or on vacations.
But relaxation has nothing to do with doing nothing or not working.
It’s a state of being.
It’s about being fully present to life as it is in each moment.
It’s a place of stillness in you that’s ALWAYS there; a place you can live life and do business from, so you always feel calm even when you’re busy or shit hits the fan.
Relaxation is not something to reach or achieve.
It doesn’t take time or effort.
It’s already here, 24/7, because it’s your true nature.
The key to experiencing relaxation, even when you’re busy, is to shift into a new way of being and seeing. To shift into a different state of consciousness based on presence and awareness.
Instead of being caught up in the endless chatter of the mind and all the worries, doubts, and stress that brings with it, you start to see and experience life in a new way.
Relaxation becomes your default state and natural response to life.
You no longer need to seek relaxation as a temporary break and begin living from a place of confident calm.
This shift does NOT mean that you stop being productive, active, or engaged; it means you bring a sense of peace into everything you do. You flow with life, instead of fighting against it.
And no matter how busy you are or what happens around you, you feel calm, balanced, and relaxed.
Imagine that…
How amazing would it be to move through your days (and to-do list) with a clear, calm mind, a relaxed body, and an open heart?
This is not a distant dream—it’s a reality you can experience by shifting your consciousness.
How you do that?
Here’s a start:
Bring your attention to your breath, and notice the breath going in and out.
Simply follow it without trying to change it.
Can you feel a spaciousness, a calm, an inner stillness underneath your thoughts and feelings?
That’s the inner peace and relaxation that are already and always yours.
Love,
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