You, Van Tuijl

You, Van Tuijl

I was twelve and just started secondary school. I was super excited about fi-na-ly leaving elementary school behind. God, I was SO done with that!⁣⁣Anyway.⁣⁣There I was, enjoying all new classes, teachers, class mates. One of these new classes was a class that taught...
Leave your problems alone

Leave your problems alone

“I don’t know why,” she said. “Maybe I don’t feel that I’m worth it? Maybe I’m scared that I can’t live up to the expectations?”⁣⁣She came to me because she wanted to raise her prices. ⁣Significantly. ⁣⁣Her calendar was full and her clients were happy. ⁣She wasn’t....
Stop following that drunk Pied Piper

Stop following that drunk Pied Piper

Every time we dropped the anchor, something in me softened and dropped. On the boat again! ⁣⁣And I was in my element. Put me in, on or near water, and I’m happy. An ocean, a lake, a puddle … the effect was always the same and always instant:⁣⁣A deep relaxation, as if...
The little buddha with the knapsack

The little buddha with the knapsack

“Bring something with you that symbolizes what you want to get out of this,” she said.⁣⁣‘She’ was my then coach, the very first I ever hired.⁣‘This’ was the career coaching I hired her for.⁣⁣I was 30 and stuck in dead-end jobs. More than anything, I wanted to know...
Here’s your off switch

Here’s your off switch

The first time I meditated, I was convinced I was doing it wrong.⁣My mind did not behave as it should, and shut up already.⁣⁣On the contrary!⁣⁣It started bringing up even *more* thoughts.⁣It was noisier in my skull than in a mosh pit at a death metal concert.⁣⁣It’s...