by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jul 8, 2026 | Uncategorized
“You may not be a millionaire in terms of money,” a friend said to me once, “but in terms of freedom and time, you’re a gazillionaire.”True. I have a shitload of freedom. And if I had a dollar for every time someone said they wanted that much time and freedom,...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jun 22, 2026 | Uncategorized
“No! Huh?!” my client said. Five minutes before that, we started our session. She came in with a problem that felt real, and urgent, and something she thought would take all session to figure out.The issue seemed practical, too:Should she be doing more...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jun 14, 2026 | Uncategorized
If you’ve been reading these blogs for a while, you may know that there’s one thing I struggled with for a long time: money.If I didn’t have enough, I worried where the next money would come from.If I had enough, I worried when it would run out. (Not if.)I worked...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 6, 2026 | Uncategorized
Tomorrow’s my surgery*. And my inner control freak is acting UP.Not just today. She was quite active over the past couple of weeks already. But she was cleverly disguising her grasp for control as being smart and prepared.And yes, I’m prepared and was smart about...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Apr 28, 2026 | Uncategorized
“It starts shortly after waking up,” she said. “One moment I’m still warm and cosy from sleep, and the next the fear factory starts up. And it starts spewing out fears and warnings, and I can’t stop it.”It was our first coaching session. She came to me because she...
