by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jun 14, 2026 | Uncategorized
If you’ve been reading these blogs for a while, you may know that there’s one thing I struggled with for a long time: money.If I didn’t have enough, I worried where the next money would come from.If I had enough, I worried when it would run out. (Not if.)I worked...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 8, 2026 | Uncategorized
Here’s what I felt for a big part of my life:Like I was an alien, accidentally dropped on the wrong planet. I should have been delivered to ZongBong3, right in the middle of fellow ZongBongers, but ended up among humans.For the longest time, I felt so out of...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jun 29, 2025 | Uncategorized
I felt angry and ashamed when I announced for the umpteenth time that my book was coming this year—only to abandon the book yet again. Why wasn’t I able to finish the damn thing?We’re talking about my second book. I had the idea for it in 2009, but didn’t feel...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Mar 22, 2025 | Uncategorized
𝘚𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘥𝘰 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦? 𝘚𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘥𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵? These types of questions used to plague me frequently. Yes, I always did business my own way, on my own terms. AND … underneath that confidence ran a quiet yet persistent undercurrent of self-doubt, installed there by...