by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 6, 2026 | Uncategorized
Tomorrow’s my surgery*. And my inner control freak is acting UP.Not just today. She was quite active over the past couple of weeks already. But she was cleverly disguising her grasp for control as being smart and prepared.And yes, I’m prepared and was smart about...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Apr 28, 2026 | Uncategorized
“It starts shortly after waking up,” she said. “One moment I’m still warm and cosy from sleep, and the next the fear factory starts up. And it starts spewing out fears and warnings, and I can’t stop it.”It was our first coaching session. She came to me because she...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 25, 2026 | Uncategorized
“How to look 5-10 years younger without plastic surgery.”“Five tips to build more confidence.”“How to become better at negotiating.”Three random headlines that jumped at me while looking something up online. Headlines like these are everywhere and quietly...
