by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jan 22, 2021 | How to create a business you love
In our world we have a distorted view of what it means to be productive and we over-emphasize the need to be ‘productive’ at all times. But forcing yourself into action when you need rest deeply hurts you in multiple ways. It hurts you because you drain...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Nov 15, 2020 | How to achieve your goals
Years ago someone I knew had a Big Dream. She was very careful who she told about it because she didn’t want anyone to mess up her dream. She was convinced other people’s negativity could have that effect. “It can’t,” I told her. “The only one who can mess up your...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Nov 11, 2020 | How to achieve your goals
Working on goals and dreams sometimes feels like hard work. When it takes longer than you’d hoped to get your desired results, impatience, doubts and frustration can show up. That definitely happened to me during the nine years it took me to publish my book Unmute...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Aug 7, 2020 | How to achieve your goals
Seven weeks ago I started writing my third book. And I was so excited about it! At the end of the week I no longer was. I thought the book was shit and it was a waste of time to finish it. But my intuition told me to finish it. And so I continued to write....
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Aug 4, 2020 | How to achieve your goals
What I mean by a ‘haver’ is to see yourself as someone who can have what she wants. As someone who looks at her dreams and knows they’re within her reach. This is not how everyone looks at their dreams and goals. (I don’t always look at my dreams that way, either!)...