by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jun 14, 2026 | Uncategorized
If you’ve been reading these blogs for a while, you may know that there’s one thing I struggled with for a long time: money.If I didn’t have enough, I worried where the next money would come from.If I had enough, I worried when it would run out. (Not if.)I worked...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 28, 2026 | Uncategorized
2001. I was brainstorming with my then-coach, who was also training me to become a coach myself, about what kind of coaching I could offer.My coach burst out laughing and yelled: “I’ve got it! No one else is doing this, and it would be perfect for you: You could...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 6, 2026 | Uncategorized
Tomorrow’s my surgery*. And my inner control freak is acting UP.Not just today. She was quite active over the past couple of weeks already. But she was cleverly disguising her grasp for control as being smart and prepared.And yes, I’m prepared and was smart about...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Apr 8, 2026 | Uncategorized
You know how you think you should do something, and you don’t do it?And you still think you should, and you still don’t do it?And this sets off a cycle of guilt. Shame. And trying to force/motivate/punish yourself to just.do.it.already?Yeah. That’s how I used...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 25, 2026 | Uncategorized
“How to look 5-10 years younger without plastic surgery.”“Five tips to build more confidence.”“How to become better at negotiating.”Three random headlines that jumped at me while looking something up online. Headlines like these are everywhere and quietly...
