“What if people don’t like it?” she said.“What if no one is interested in my new offer? What if it doesn’t work?”I looked at her and said:“What if it DOES work? What if people LOVE your new offer?What if it’s the answer to their prayers?”I felt her...
I just started the first round of self-edits of my 5th book. But it didn’t feel right. I didn’t enjoy it and it felt somehow off. Many, many years ago I would have pushed through. Don’t be a cry baby! You have a deadline and you already waited too long to get started,...
When you see someone who has achieved something you aspire, what’s your default response to that?Does this make you feel like you can have this, too? That what they’ve achieved (or something even better!) is available and possible for you as well?Or do you...
Years ago, when I was still single, someone asked me what I was looking for in a man. I knew exactly what that was and shared my list of demands with her. She was stunned and didn’t know what to say. After a couple of seconds she asked if maybe I was asking too much...
When you let your mind do its own thing, it’s default state is to come up with worst-case scenarios: What could go wrong? And how could you fix that / prepare for it / prevent it? Thinking about what could go wrong or what you could lose may seem...
