You, Van Tuijl

You, Van Tuijl

I was twelve and just started secondary school. I was super excited about fi-na-ly leaving elementary school behind. God, I was SO done with that!⁣⁣Anyway.⁣⁣There I was, enjoying all new classes, teachers, class mates. One of these new classes was a class that taught...
Complicated things – again

Complicated things – again

Ah. Of course! ⁣Just closing the form is the simple solution. ⁣⁣That realization dawned on me this morning, after having already sent the email about the One Thing Deep Dive Chat.⁣⁣You see, last Friday, I opened 3 spots for that free chat with me. In the email I...
Overwhelmed? Get a haircut

Overwhelmed? Get a haircut

“I’m so overwhelmed,” she said. “It gives me so much stress. I need to get rid of it!”⁣⁣I looked at her, and waited a second before I said:⁣⁣“Let’s stay with it for a while first. Can you do that?”⁣⁣Surprise and annoyance flashed in equal measure over her face so fast...
If you resonate, you’ll know

If you resonate, you’ll know

  When I started coaching around 2001, hardly anyone in The Netherlands knew what coaching was. Yes, in sports, sure. But other than that? People had NO clue.  On top of that, what I coached people on was super vague, too. “I help you find your life...