by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 6, 2026 | Uncategorized
Tomorrow’s my surgery*. And my inner control freak is acting UP.Not just today. She was quite active over the past couple of weeks already. But she was cleverly disguising her grasp for control as being smart and prepared.And yes, I’m prepared and was smart about...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 5, 2026 | Uncategorized
“I’m not worried about money, even though the mortgage is almost due and I’m not sure how to pay it. Should I be worried that I’m not worried?” A question I’ve been asked by more than one client.Not always about paying a mortgage.Sometimes about missing out on a...
by Brigitte van Tuijl | Apr 28, 2026 | Uncategorized
“It starts shortly after waking up,” she said. “One moment I’m still warm and cosy from sleep, and the next the fear factory starts up. And it starts spewing out fears and warnings, and I can’t stop it.”It was our first coaching session. She came to me because she...