Set your sights higher.

by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 27, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs, How to create a business you love

Perhaps you’ve experienced some disappointments in the past. Or you’re used to achieve a certain type of result or experience a certain amount of joy / love / pleasure / fulfillment. And maybe you expect a certain amount of money – but never much more than that....

What’s the best-case scenario?

by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 25, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs

When you let your mind do its own thing, it’s default state is to come up with worst-case scenarios:   What could go wrong? And how could you fix that / prepare for it / prevent it?   Thinking about what could go wrong or what you could lose may seem...

Good enough is good enough. And done is better than perfect.

by Brigitte van Tuijl | May 14, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs, How to get unstuck in your business

I often see my clients struggle with perfectionism: They have a great idea, but their need for everything to be perfect is paralyzing them. The key to break through this is to first understand that paralyzing perfectionism has very little to do with wanting to deliver...

The best way to deal with stress, fear, or anything else you prefer not to feel.

by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 24, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs

Several times this week some thoughts came up that caused a sudden flare of stress & fear to rise up inside me. Highly uncomfortable. And my first reaction was the knee-jerk response we all have to things we don’t want to feel:⁣ To do something, anything, to...

The power of not knowing.

by Brigitte van Tuijl | Feb 14, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs

⁣We always want to know everything:⁣⁣⁣⁣Answers to our questions. Clarity where things seem vague. Our next step or rather, the entire roadmap to the fulfillment of all our desires.⁣⁣⁣⁣Our every need met, now.⁣⁣⁣⁣Why we’re in the place we’re in, why we’re here to begin...

Whatever you don’t know (yet) you don’t need to know (yet).

by Brigitte van Tuijl | Jan 20, 2020 | How to change your limiting beliefs, How to get unstuck in your business

One of my clients asked me a question on a Q&A call this week that had to do with not knowing exactly who her ideal client is. There was more to it than that, and in my answer I addressed the different layers underneath her question, but there’s one thing I...