You manage your life.
That’s normal, you think.
Of course you manage what you do, and when, and why.
Of course you manage your money, your household, your chores.
Of course you manage your schedule, your business, your work.
Without this, everything would fall apart!
Maybe it would.
Maybe it wouldn’t.
And there’s nothing wrong with scheduling and planning.
That’s practical.
(Unless planning takes over from presence.)
But you try to manage so much more.
You try to force life in molds it’s unwilling to fit in.
You brace for life’s impact that could hit you at any moment.
If someone sold an insurance that guaranteed a happy,
healthy,
joyful ever after,
you’d buy it.
No matter the cost.
In reality, you’re not managing life.
You’re managing being alive.
Impossible.
Life is not manageable.
And it’s not yours to manage.
There’s no such thing as ‘your’ life.
There’s just life,
seemingly divided in separate people,
separate countries,
separate planets.
Managing itself perfectly.
Love,
P.S. If you’d like to stop the endless managing …
My private coaching might be for you.
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