Creating your business & life exactly as you want it is often easier said than done.

The main reasons?

#1 You don’t know what you want.

You know what annoys you or what you no longer want, but what you DO want?

You have NO idea.

#2 You know what you want but don’t believe it’s possible.

It sounds so unrealistic. Because you think you don’t have what it takes, it’s too big, or simply…impossible. Maybe others can get this, yes, but you? Nah.

#3 You don’t know HOW.

You’re not sure where to start or can’t see the path towards your goal. So there’s no point to start at all before you know this, right?

#4 You’re waiting for the right time.

For the corona weirdness to be over. Until the economy is better or your kids are back to school. Or until you feel ready. 

#5 Fears and doubts are in your way.

How can you make money with this? What happens when you lose it again once you have it? What if you don’t have what it takes, you aren’t worthy, it doesn’t feel safe, or the price feels too high?

Most people stay where they because of one (or more. Or all!) of these reasons.

Even though they no longer want what they have. Even when they are longing for more.

And so they wait for better times or until they feel ready.



You are! Even when you think you’re not. Even when you think this is the wrong time. Even when you don’t know what to do or where to start.


Because the moment a desire makes itself known to you?

Is the moment you can move forward on it. Is the moment you are ready for it.

What moving forward means can be something different for each person and for each desire:

Sometimes moving forward means to take the time to explore what you truly want first.

Sometimes it means to face and address the fears that hold you back.

Sometimes it means to change your mindset or way of being.

Sometimes it means to take the actions you already know you need to take.

And usually it means all the above, at different stages of your journey.

You can do all of this.

And you’re ready for that now.

Because here is the truth about those reasons that stop you:

#1 You don’t have to know what you want yet.

You can get clear on that. All it takes is the right mindset and some journal prompts or exercises that help you dive into your desires.

#2 You don’t have to fully believe it’s possible yet.

You can open your mind enough to move forward anyway. Learn to tap into your inner wisdom and give that priority over your fears and doubts….learn how to surrender them….and you can move forward despite not fully trusting and believing you can get something. (And your trust and belief WILL shift along the way!!)

#3 You don’t have to know the HOW.

Because your soul does. And your intuition shows you your way, step by step. Learn how to tap into your inner wisdom and how to act on it, and you can move forward without knowing what you need to do next week or even tomorrow.

#4 You don’t have to wait for the right time.

The right time is ALWAYS and ONLY now. There IS no other time. When your kids are back at school, your cat might get sick. When your cat is better, your car might break down. When your car is fixed, your roof may leak. When your roof is fixed… get the idea, right?

There will ALWAYS be something that COULD stand in your way.

The question is what you focus on:

On what IS possible?

Or on what you can’t do now?

There is ALWAYS something you CAN do.

There are ALWAYS options.

And there is ALWAYS a way to do everything YOUR way.

#5 Fears and doubts don’t have to stop you.

You’ll always have fears and doubts. One moment you have fears around the economy or your health, the next you’re afraid to make yourself visible or raise your fees.

The question is not when you’ll ever be fear free from fears or doubts (hint: the answer is never).

The question is how to address them so they no longer stop you.

And that is a learnable skill!

Now is always the best time to make changes and move forward on your dreams.

Especially NOW now 😉


Because the world has pressed pause on business as usual – which makes this the perfect time to turn inward and explore if you even WANT to go back to how things were for you before.

Because everything has changed (and will continue to change for a while longer) already – and you can either take charge and determine how you choose to handle those changes, or let whatever happens outside you determine your life.

Because tuning into yourself, your soul, your inner wisdom and your inner desires brings you both peace and joy – two things you can never have enough of, and come in extra handy right now 🙂

And because my brand new online program ‘Unmute Your Life – break free from fear & go for what you REALLY want’ starts in a couple of days.

In 7 weeks, you: 

  • Learn how to tap into yourself, your desires, and get clear on what you REALLY want;
  • Take actions towards what you truly want already;
  • Learn how to move forward without knowing how to achieve your goal or manifest your desire yet;
  • Shed beliefs, habits, or routines that no longer serve you;
  • Learn how to deal with ANY kind of fears, stress or doubts that hinder you now and/or every time you encounter them;
  • Learn how to live in alignment with your SOUL, so you automatically live your purpose, feel joyful, at peace and fulfilled – and you ALWAYS know what’s best for you, and what to do next.


You have me by your side for those 7 weeks to coach and support you in anything you need!

In addition to a closed Facebook group where you can ask me anything anytime, you ALSO get 7 group Q&A coaching calls. 

(That’s NOT something I would normally offer (at least, not for this investment!), but since these are special times, I feel it’s important to give you as much support as I can.)

You can make beautiful, positive changes in the next 7 weeks, and set yourself up for a further transformation into the business & life of your dreams after that!

We start on Thursday, April 9.

And you can read all about & sign up for the program here.

I’d love to see and support you there!



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