I was sick yesterday, which is always a good excuse to watch something cheesy on Netflix. 

Yesterday, that cheesy show was ‘Back with the ex’ where people are seeing if they can get, well, what the title says.

In the first episode, one of the women said this:

“I’m at a point in my life where if it’s not incredible, I don’t want it.”

I absolutely LOVE that!

I think that’s a great motto to live by.

Not just when it comes to relationships, but when it comes to your business as well.

My own business is exactly as I want it.

Sure, there’s always more I desire or would like to create, and that will never change.

But other than that?

My business is pretty incredible.

That’s NOT a matter of dumb luck, though.

Ab-so-lu-te-ly not!

I know what it’s like to feel stuck in jobs I hated.

I know what it’s like to feel like this is not what I want – without having a clue what is was that I DID want instead. 

And I know what it’s like to look at my business and think: this is NOT what I want any longer AT ALL.

How I changed all that?

Is a step-by-step process. 

All of those changes were step by step processes. (With a big leap here and there.)

And what every change had in common?

Was that I DECIDED I was no longer willing to tolerate what I had.

I chose what I DID want instead.


I was simply no longer available for anything less than what I TRULY desired.

Was it as easy as this sounds?

God, no!

But this IS the main ingredient that shaped my life and business into something I totally LOVE. 

Sure, life happens and you can’t change everything. But that’s not what I’m talking about. The things you can’t change you can accept and surrender to.

But when it comes to everything you CAN change?

You can definitely decide to be available for the best ONLY.

How about you?

How much are you willing to tolerate?

How committed are you to only get the best?

And do you have the guts to say NO to everything that’s less than that?

To what’s best for you,

and no longer tolerating anything less,



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