Here’s what happens when you put your soul first:

Magic. Flow. Synchronicities. Effortlessness. Inner peace. Trust.

Finding security, safety, guidance and answers in yourself.

Your purpose unfolding with more ease than ever before.


Everything that’s NOT aligned with your soul, comes up so you can clear it, heal it, shed it, transform it, let go of it.

This happens on a mental level:

Your fears, doubts, insecurities, and whatever else limiting constructions you have going on in your mind show up.

On an emotional level:

Old pains and wounds come up to be healed.

On a physical level:

Your body goes through transformations, too. This can result in aches, pains, fevers, colds or even sickness.

If your lifestyle isn’t healthy for you (anymore), you’ll feel called to start or stop an exercising routine, eat different foods, etc.

And it happens on a spiritual level:

You learn to hold and share more energy (and of a higher vibration).

Your intuition gets stronger. New spiritual gifts may show up. The ones you already have get stronger.

All this can feel super uncomfortable at times!

It can feel unpleasant and confusing. 

It can be painful and difficult. 

It can feel lonely and like it’s never ending.

It can make you wonder when you’ll ever be done repeating the same lessons or going over the same old ground.

It can be scary and challenging.

And it’s all SOOOO worth it!!

But when you’re in the middle of it? 

It can be tiring and hard.

Knowing all this is part of the process of coming back to yourself, of living from your soul, helps.

I see it in working with my 1-1 clients all the time.

It’s very reassuring for them to hear that what they’re going through is normal and is part of the unfolding of their soul’s path. Of the unlocking of their true self.

That’s why I’m sharing this with you, too.

Because there is a BIG chance you’re going through this soul calling and awakening journey as well.

More and more people are going back to their soul’s original blueprint and who they truly are.

Souls are calling louder now – including yours.

What you answer is up to you.

Just know that if you choose to let your soul guide you, magic awaits.

AND….it also requires courage. Trust. Surrender.

Being OK with not having answers and not really knowing (or understanding) what’s going on.

It doesn’t have to be a lonely struggle, though.

You can share your journey with like-minded people.

Get support from healers, teachers, and coaches/energy workers like myself.

AND you have the love of life itself behind you:

When you say YES to your soul, the whole universe says YES to you, and supports you every step of the way.

If you recognize feeling confused, feeling like you are changing (but you’re not sure how), old shit comes up (again) and things are shifting but you have no clue in what direction yet?


You’re in the midst of a beautiful awakening / transformation!

Hang in there and take care of yourself as best you can.

This will pass and you’ll be SO happy with what’s on the other side of it!

Trust your soul.

She knows what she’s doing.

Follow her lead and surrender to your path. 

You’ve got this. 

I see you.

And you’re doing great.



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Depending on how you journal, of course.

If all you do is vent & blow off steam you might feel relieved – but it won’t bring you much else.

If all you do is describe what you did that day you create a nice collection of memories – and that’s about it.

But when you use your journaling to dive into your inner world, explore what goes on inside you, and consciously shift your mind from limiting thoughts & perspectives to constructive ones?

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