Which makes it difficult to move forward and grow your business.
Especially when you think the following reasons are perfectly valid reasons to stay where you are.
But they’re not.
As I will show you now:
Reason #1 you don’t want to be more visible: because of who you think you must become.
Maybe you think you must tone your personality down a notch or else you’re too much.
Maybe you think you have to shout, when your natural style is more quiet and thoughtful.
Whatever you think you have to change, one thing you’re sure of:
You can’t become more visible when you stay the same person you are right now.
You don’t have to change ANYTHING about who you truly are in order to become more visible & grow your business.
Not a SINGLE thing.
Do you have to take different or more actions? Maybe.
Do you have to learn new things and unlearn others? Possibly.
Do you have to change your mindset? Very likely.
But the ONE thing you FOR SURE don’t EVER have to change is WHO YOU TRULY ARE.
On the contrary:
The more you show us who you REALLY are, the more your potential clients resonate with you!
Your (potential) clients want YOU.
Exactly as you are.
Reason #2 you don’t want to be more visible: because of what you think you have to do to get there.
Maybe you believe you have make videos to become more visible. Or Facebook ads. Or podcasts.
Or speak on stages in front of dozens of people.
Whatever you think you must do to become more visible: chances are that you don’t.
Because of this truth:
There are just as many ways and strategies to make yourself visible, as there are people.
(OK, ALMOST as many ways.)
And NONE of them is a MUST.
The only thing that matters is that you ARE visible in some way, shape or form.
You can become more visible without videos, without audios, without newsletters, without ever speaking on stages, and even without having a website.
Whatever way fits YOU, is perfect for YOU.
And you can forget about every other way that doesn’t resonate with you or that you positively hate.
Reason #3 you don’t want to be more visible: because you’re afraid people will criticize or even (GASP!) dislike you.
Ah, the fear of what others might think of you.
A deep rooted and perfectly understandable fear that once made perfect sense.
In the olden days, your survival depended on being part of a tribe.
You couldn’t survive without the care and safety of being in a group.
So you’d be CRAZY to do something that could potentially get you cast out.
Rocking the boat or rubbing people the wrong way could literally get you killed.
(Not to mention being visible as someone who was seen as a witch, or having a certain religion, could also lead to being hanged, burned, tortured, killed or shunned.)
So yeah, being invisible or at least not standing out too much was generally a good idea for women throughout history.
First of all, that’s no longer true. You don’t have to be in a tribe to survive.
You can take care of yourself and make your own money.
Sure, you need other people. But if one group doesn’t like you, there will be another group who does.
No matter what you do or say, there will always be someone who likes it and someone else who disagrees.
And by far MOST people don’t even know who you are or don’t care about you or your opinions AT ALL.
You know who DO like you?
Your true friends.
Your ideal clients – the people you are meant to work with, and who love you for who you are.
And aren’t these the only people that truly matter to YOU?
What a coincidence 😉
So, you can safely forget about everyone else.
In the words of Bernard M. Baruch in one of my favorite quotes of all times:
“Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don’t matter,
and those who matter don’t mind.”
To being YOU, babe.
P.S.: Your inner blocks & obstacles are the ONLY thing standing between you and whatever it is you want to experience or achieve.
Clearing those blocks is all you have to do to live your DREAMS instead of your fears.
It’s not always easy to cut through your own crap or heal your own inner turmoil, though.
RISE helps you break free with done for you healings!
It gives you the tools, clearings, (healing) energy, mindset & support to transform and let go of your inner crap, so it no longer holds you back from whatever it is you TRULY want to do in your business & life.
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