If there’s ONE skill I think every woman should completely OWN it’s this:

To be your own guru.

I see women so often be so super critical of themselves; their work; their business; what they do and how they do it and if it’s good enough.


And they constantly look for outside validation and outside answers, and other people to show them the way and tell them what to do.

Which will NEVER work because NO ONE can tell YOU what to do and what’s best for you.

Because they’re NOT YOU.


If you want to walk your own path? Be your own guru.


If you want to grow your business in your own way? Be your own guru.

If you want to be true to yourself & fulfill your soul’s purpose? Be. Your. Own. Guru.



Learn to trust yourself, your own wisdom and gut instinct and intuition above EVERYTHING and EVERYONE else.

And no, that’s not always easy, and yes, it triggers your inner crap.

And yes, you’ll make mistakes, and no, that’s not a big deal.

And yes, it’s OK to learn from others or ask for advice and hire a coach.

Of course it is! You CAN learn from others and it’s smart to do so!


As long as you ONLY implement and adopt knowledge, steps, and advice that resonates with your own truth deepest truth, and don’t get distracted by the things that do NOT resonate.

Be your own guru, baby.

It’s the BEST thing you can do for yourself AND your business!

That’s why this month’s topic of my business healing program RISE is: Fully trust yourself.

‘Cause you need to do that if you want to fully unleash your own inner guru and follow her always.


Thankfully, trusting yourself is something you can learn and train.

So start there. Listen to your gut. Act upon it. And learn to trust yourself a little bit more every single day.

You always know best, baby!


© Brigitte van Tuijl

P.S. And if you want to learn more about fully trusting yourself and becoming your own guru?

Join me in RISE, my online business healing program for women entrepreneurs.

You can instantly dive into this month’s healing energy & masterclass once you sign up.

You’ll receive some additional healings & clearings throughout this month to help strengthen your trust in yourself.

AND you receive my upcoming workshop ‘No Goals, No Plans, No Soul-Sucking Strategies – grow your business organically, intuitively & 100% YOUR way’ for FREE! 

(I’ll be charging 197 for this workshop alone…so joining me in RISE is a much better deal  You can join RISE for 88 Euros per month; stay as long as you like, and cancel anytime)

You can read all about & sign up for RISE here.



I’ll leave you with this question I asked the participants in RISE today:

If you FULLY trusted yourself:

What would you do today?

Yeah…what WOULD you do today if you fully trusted yourself?!


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