Last week, I wrote about losing touch with my true dream, and how I finally reconnected to it.

And…then what?

Once you know what you TRULY want to build: what’s next?

How do you move on from there?

Here’s what I do.

I hope it helps you manifest YOUR real dream, too:

#1 Sacred Vow

Make a deep, deep promise to yourself to honor your dream.

Promise yourself to fully commit to it, with everything you’ve got: your heart, your mind, your actions, your soul.

Promise yourself that you’re ALL IN, and you’ll go FULL OUT to bring this dream to life.

This is the most heartfelt YES! you’ve ever said to yourself, your life, your calling and your soul purpose.

Promise yourself you’ll go for it, even if you don’t know HOW to manifest it yet. Even if it scares you shitless.

It’s OK to make mistakes or not know what to do next. Just promise yourself you will do what it takes.


#2: Let go of beliefs that no longer serve you

What do you think are the top-3 main reasons why you haven’t manifested your big dream yet?
Take some time to really think about this.

These reasons show you your top-3 limiting beliefs that will continue to keep you from achieving your dreams – until you let go of them.

This helps:

Imagine what would change in your business and your life if you no longer believed these thoughts.

How would this positively influence your happiness, peace of mind, freedom, income and impact? What would become possible for you and your business?

Really let this sink in. The more you feel how much better and more beautiful your life is without these negative beliefs, the easier it is to let go of them.


#3: Action, baby

What’s ONE thing you can do on a daily basis that helps you manifest your deepest dream?

For example:

My dream is all about writing and creating, and building an information & inspiration empire.

It’s pretty easy to see what I need to do on a daily basis to create that, step by step:

Sit my ass down and write. Every. Single. Day.

What do YOU need to do on a daily basis?


#4 Daily alignment

Before you make a decision or take an action, ask yourself this:

Does this help me manifest my true dream? Or does it push the realization of it further away from me?

And then, of course, choose the thing that brings you closer to it…


#5 Get support

You can’t do it alone. Well, technically, you can and you do.

BUT it’s SO much easier if you get help. You don’t HAVE to do it alone.

Getting the right help saves you time, money, energy and a lot of stress and running around in circles.

That’s why I ALWAYS have a coach myself. There have been times in my business when I didn’t. But that always cost me SO much more than hiring a good coach or joining a great program would have cost me.

So go find a coach, accountability partner, mastermind, or program that’s perfect for YOU right now.

Why go without?

Allow yourself to find the easiest way to make your dreams come true – and to enjoy the journey as much as the end result.


© 2015 Brigitte van Tuijl


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