I bet you can think of at least 3 things you would like to have, be, do or experience right now.

Which is great, because every creation starts with wanting it.

But not everything you want becomes a reality.

How come?

One of the main reasons is this:

You say you want something. You focus on it. You dream about it. You feel how much you want it and you hope it will happen.

Maybe you even take (some) action towards achieving it.

You want. And want. And want some more.

But you forget this very important thing:

You do not CHOOSE it.

Wanting something and choosing it are two very different things.

Wanting is passive. Wanting is connected to hoping, wishing, and waiting for something to happen.

Choosing something on the other hand, is active. It’s powerful. Choosing something means that you’re committed. Committed to do what it takes to get what you want.

Choosing is connected to power, standing strong, taking charge of your creations. You don’t just hope and wait that something good will come your way.

You choose it. You connect your brainpower, willpower, intuition, actions and feelings to it.

Don’t forget that you receive what you send out.

Wanting something leads to more wanting.

Choosing something clears the way to actually get what you choose.

Stop wanting. Start choosing.

It’s a VERY important key to actually getting what you want.

What is it you want right now?

Make a list of everything you want.

After that, pick the ONE thing you want most of all.

Then, you CHOOSE.

CHOOSE to create this. Choose to welcome it into your life, and to do what it takes to achieve it.

Make a powerful decision.

Notice how different and more powerful this feels.

NOW you are ready to go for it….AND to actually create and receive it.



©️ Brigitte van Tuijl


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