Put Yourself First, Baby!

You want to create a business and life you adore.

You want more.

More joy. More impact. More happiness. More money. More meaning and success.

And above all… more freedom!

But you’re not willing to achieve this at all costs. 

You’re not willing to change who you are. You won’t compromise your values or sacrifice your self-care (or anything else you hold dear).

So, you wonder… can you get what you want without paying a price?

Can you be as free as you want and still grow your business?

Is it possible to be true to yourself and still have the success / money / clients / impact you desire?

Is it possible to create a business and life you deeply love without losing yourself or burning yourself up?

The answer is YES!

I’ll show you how.

I’m Brigitte van Tuijl and I’m a writer and master coach for women entrepreneurs.

In the past two decades I’ve helped thousands of women get clear on their true dream and make it real. My clients have launched businesses globally, published their first books, doubled their incomes, and realized their most important goals and desires.

With over 20 years of coaching women entrepreneurs, I know this for sure: the key to finding freedom and fulfillment in your business and in your life lies in putting yourself first.

I call this ‘The Art of Divine Selfishness.’

I’m living proof of this myself!

I uncompromisingly built my business & life around my personality, dreams, needs, wants & mission. I’m a multi-creator and a hermit, which means that I need A LOT of space and alone time, for example.

I never make more than 4 appointments per week, for only 3 weeks per month. Every 4th week is my hermit week: my completely appointment-free week.

Your desires and dreams will be different. 

Your ideal lifestyle and business won’t look the same either. 

That doesn’t matter. 

There is always a way to create your business & life in YOUR way, on YOUR terms. Without sacrificing what’s important to you. Without working like a dog. Without buying into the strategies and must-dos of experts, coaches and gurus.

What you truly want is available and possible for you.

Let me show you how. 

Brigitte is not just just a coach, she is not just a very good coach coach… she is an awesome coach.

I transformed my business from a Dutch practice into a global business, reached 1000’s of new ideal clients and took huge steps. I am grateful that I had Brigitte to guide and empower me to follow through on my dream.

I am not coachable by every one, often times not even by a very good coach. Brigitte is an awesome coach who has the unparalleled quality of creating breakthrough after breakthrough. I don’t know any other coach who can do that so fast and hitting the mark every single time.”

Lianne Ebbinkhuijsen, easy-influence.com

I’ve grown. Expanded. Experience more space.

“So much has shifted in me. I feel different, and you can see a difference on the outside as well:  I quit my career coaching business and made a big step in bringing my spiritual work into the world. But above all, I learned to listen to my soul, said YES to her, and follow the flow of life with so much more faith.

Thank you so much, Brigitte, for helping me see my patterns; showing me options; making & keeping things simple; and getting to the core and the essence of everything.”

Hanneke van Stigt Thans, www.soulenergy.online

Some call her the best coach of The Netherlands. That sounded good so I decided to take the leap. I’m glad I did!

Brigitte and I clarified how I can structure my business so I can serve more people in a way that fits me. We also uncovered what was stopping me. And I learned how to deal with it so it’s not holding me back anymore.

I will always remember what Brigitte taught me about manifesting your desires in real and practical ways. That’s a skill that will serve me for the rest of my life. Thank you, Brigitte!”

Marloes Bouwmeester, desuccesvolleintrovert.nl

No one can bring me back to myself so incredibly fast as she can.

“Brigitte supported me in numerous issues: from money to marketing to relationships to my mission in business. Her talent to quickly get to the core of any issue is unparalleled: I’ve never seen or experienced anyone who can do that as fast and as good as she can. Her honesty always hits home. She always knows exactly what needs to be done or addressed so you can move forward in your business. A real talent.”

Margaretha Schokker, volgjehartspecialist.nl

I doubled my income within a month!

“I doubled my income within a month. And I gained so much confidence that I really can get where I want to be as a result of being fully aligned with who I am and what I want. Brigitte always feels if my actions and ideas are truly aligned with me, or not. And she gives me so much faith in myself: I now really trust that I have everything inside me to reach all my goals.”

Maartje Koper, www.maartjekoper.nl and www.manifestmagically.com

I’m attracting more clients, and sent out 4 new proposals last week!

“Thanks to working with Brigitte, I now only do what I most love to do: combining humor & transformation in workshops and other projects. And it’s paying off big time: I’m attracting more clients, and sent out 4 new proposals last week! I feel more confident, and charge more for my services. I’ve learned to deal with my inner critic, my fears and my doubts. They’re not stopping me anymore! “

Marleen Bekker, marleenbekker.com

Brigitte’s coaching made all the difference!

“Brigitte helped me reconnect with my power, my mission, and myself. She taught me how to go BIG with my goals, and still be true to my mission and myself.  I found my balance and flow, and as a result I’m able to deliver much more impact and value for my clients.  Brigitte’s coaching made all the difference. She’s an incredibly powerful and intuitive coach. She gets to the core very fast, and knows exactly what you need to move forward and create lasting change.

Anne-Else Højberg, mensenlatenschitteren.nl

My life changed completely in the first 6 months of our coaching!

“I found inner peace; I love my work more; I rarely feel bored; I now love life and myself; and my inner critic is so much quieter.  My business is shifting into a form that truly fits and serves me.  I have more energy, more free time, and I am happier overall.  Everything is so much better now. And it only gets better and better!
The coaching is deeply transformational and life-changing, and worth every cent of my investment – and more!”

Petra Jungblut, jungblutcreatie.nl

Working with Brigitte helped me reconnect with everything that truly matters to me.

“I feel inspired and in the flow again. I learned how to fulfill my mission in business in MY own way, the
Else-way. Brigitte is 100% committed to helping you be the best you can be, on your own terms, in a way that’s best for you.  If you are truly committed to make changes in your business, you should go to Brigitte too. It makes a world of difference in your business and life.”

Else Boutkan, elseboutkan.nl

I am living a completely different life now!

 “While being very loving and kind, Brigitte cuts straight through any BS, blocks, and excuses. She is amazingly intuitive and can call on her guidance to nudge you along your path in addition to relying on her training and experience. I am living a completely different life now. And it keeps growing and evolving. Brigitte has helped me step into a new reality of magnificent and endless possibility, love and beauty.

Lyerka Miller


“ When my program attracted hundreds of new clients, I was forced to bring on another coach to help…I prayed to find a coach masterful enough for me to trust with my tribe. Then I thought of Brigitte…and she
said YES! (Thank God!)  My people had HUGE breakthroughs with her guidance. The best miracle was that they loved her as much as me! (Maybe even more.) She’s brilliant, intuitive, straight-forward, incredibly supportive and detailed. It was the best decision I ever made!”

Jeanna Gabellini, masterpeacecoaching.com


“I took a lot of big steps, much faster than I thought I would. I feel so much more free, and enjoy running my business again! Brigitte has a real & rare talent to get to the core of your issues super fast.
She just KNOWS what’s important to focus on and bring to light – including things that are hidden deep under the surface, and you’re not even consciously aware of yourself yet. If you’re looking for cookie-cutter steps & advice to grow your business: go find another business coach.
But if you’re looking for an exceptional coach who helps you grow your soul-based business, in 100% alignment with your calling, personality, and your own way of doing things: go to Brigitte!

Karin Bosveld, karinbosveld.com

I’ve learned to take steps despite my fears.

Working with Brigitte helped me see what held me back. She showed me how to use my intuition and creativity more. I’ve learned to take steps despite my fears. As a result I work with much more ease, I’m doing
what I love, and I have accomplished my dream of experiencing freedom in my business and life.
I think bigger and see more options and opportunities. And I’m now attracting clients who want to experience this too.”

Nicole Offenberg, nicoleoffenberg.nl

Brigitte is my go-to coach because she gets me the results I want!

I worked with Brigitte in 2012 with great success, so when I looked for a business coach this year I came back to her.

No one can do what she does: she can support you in deep emotional processes and shifts; is there for you every step of the way and always challenges you to be even more true to yourself and do business in your own way.

And I get amazing results when I work with her! Over the past 6 months, she helped me clear EVERYTHING in my business & life that wasn’t a good fit for so I could create a business that’s 100% perfect for ME.

Carolien Oosterhoff, heartpepper . nl / tantra-therapie